Posted on May 30, 2008 by Ari
Another wonderful misconception about sexism is that not intending to perpetrate it allows you to wash your hands on the matter. This misconception isn’t limited to sexism- there are similar attitudes about racism, homophobia, transphobia, ableism, and so on for all of the various -isms and -phobias. Apologies from politicians for being caught dipping into [...]
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Posted on May 29, 2008 by Ari
Hey truckers and guests- I’ve unwisely crawled out of bed for an hour or so and thought I’d update you. I’m currently suffering stomach pains and am totally tired and won’t even be able to spare a couple hours for feminism, especially seeing as sitting up is hurting my back something tragic and I’ve already [...]
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Posted on May 26, 2008 by Ari
An interesting talking point that’s floating on the internet right now is that making general statements about rich white men is discrimination and shouldn’t be supported. Obviously this is someone’s first barbeque.
While I certainly agree that these sorts of characterisations are mild discrimination, I actually don’t agree that discrimination is always a terrible thing no [...]
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Posted on May 23, 2008 by Ari
Firstly- a quick apology for not being able to get this up sooner. We’ve had some wiring problems with the electricity that have stopped me from internetting until today.
Last time I covered why sex is risky and complicated, why there are excellent reasons to justify men saying no, and why arousal isn’t the same as [...]
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Posted on May 21, 2008 by Ari
Samhita over at Feministing continues to be awesome, plugging an interesting video by Jay Smooth on the subject of homosexuality and hip-hop.
My favourite bit was the conclusion:
Because when we find ourselves believing that killing a man makes us more of a man, but loving a man makes us less of a man, it’s probably time [...]
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Posted on May 20, 2008 by Ari
Oh right, I have a blog. I suppose I should post on it before midnight today. Whoops.
While I’m quite happy that Hillary Clinton is a candidate for the democratic nomination,1 I’m also upset that people are bagging her with sexist insults at mach 2. The constant calling out of such examples of sexism currently has [...]
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Posted on May 19, 2008 by Ari
Seeing as I’m having a bit of writer’s block on the issue of gender essentialism at the moment, I thought I’d depart from my plan and do some advanced work on other types of consent, (ie. male and gay/lesbian consent) as was suggested in an earlier comment, because hey, it couldn’t hurt to sneak in [...]
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Posted on May 17, 2008 by Ari
Before I start this very late friday/saturday post, I’m quickly going to share two new features I’m going to add at least to all upcoming posts- I’m going to add tooltips every time I introduce a piece of jargon to that post, allowing you to better understand what I’m saying in my essay posts just [...]
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Posted on May 15, 2008 by Ari
Deborah over at The Hand Mirror has an excellent post from a while back on how a tiny exception in Act’s proposed tax cuts devalues women’s labour, by hitting part-timers (who are disproportionately female) with extra tax. This hits on a vein that’s essential to my feelings about not only feminist thought, but also [...]
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Posted on May 14, 2008 by Ari
I mentioned earlier when I covered social attitudes to rape that meaningful consent has to be “explicit and free”. Many a man interested in exploring the murky deeps of gender politics from a male perspective dives into the issue of consent in straight sex, which I find almost painfully simple, and comes out with some [...]
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